Join the vibrant world of Bate Clubs, where men come together to celebrate the joys of self-pleasure without any shame or guilt!
Born from the resilience during the AIDS pandemic, today's clubs thrive on the fun and freedom of the "no lips below the hips" and "no poles in holes" rules.
At Triad Jacks, we redefine your masturbation experience! Say hello to a thrilling atmosphere where you can embrace your desires, be admired, and connect with others. Whether you choose to enjoy your own pleasure while watching or engage in consensual mutual touch, a Triad Jacks event promises to elevate your experience to a whole new level!

About Triad Jacks Events

Triad Jacks hosts private, discreet, and safe men's masturbation events. The events rotate throughout the Triad region, creating gatherings for men to enjoy the pleasures of masturbation with other men.
Triad Jacks aims to create an inclusive space for bators who identify as men, regardless of sexual orientation, physical attributes, or age (21and older).
Participants may engage in solo masturbation, showing off, watching, along with mutual masturbation, erotic and friendly touch, frottage, nipple play, and make out (all with mutual consent).
Nudity is the norm for Triad Jacks events; however, a single item of clothing is permitted, typically a t-shirt. At check-in, Triad Jacks will provide a clothing check. Bags will be provided along with numbered wristbands. Participants will stow their clothing and footwear in the bags, returning to check in for storage until they are ready to leave. Participants are allowed to leave at any time during the event.
All events include coconut oil (for lube), towels, wipes, hand soap, mouthwash, and other amenities.
Never attend a Triad Jacks event if you have or suspect that you may have any illness and/or disease that you could spread to others during an event. This includes respiratory issues. If you aren't feeling well, please join us another time.
Bate Conduct
Masturbation Only
Triad Jacks events are all about celebrating the joy of masturbation! Here, nothing goes in any holes, ensuring a fun and liberated experience. Participants are encouraged to enjoy themselves in whatever way feels best—whether that's solo pleasure, mutual touch, frottage, or making out. Join us for an exciting exploration of pleasure with other men in a safe and discreet setting!
Consent Required
Always ask before you grab it! Getting consent from participants is essential for building trust and connection. A simple hand gesture or a soft "may I" is all it takes to reach out to someone. Remember, everyone has the right to say no at any moment, and respecting each other's boundaries is a must! Let’s keep it fun and respectful—no awkwardness here!
Hygiene
We kindly ask all participants to wash their hands after undressing and before connecting with others—let's keep things fresh and clean! Additionally, to ensure everyone's comfort, please limit cologne and body spray use. We want to create a pleasant atmosphere, so let's avoid strong body odors or smoke scents. Thank you for your cooperation!
Poppers, Drugs & Toys
Poppers are totally welcome! However, please remember that drug use is not allowed at any Triad Jacks events. Also, personal masturbation toys, sleeves, or other are not permitted. Let's keep the fun safe and enjoyable for everyone!
Confidentiality
Participants are encouraged to keep the identities of fellow attendees confidential! While amazing friendships and bonds will undoubtedly form, it’s essential to respect everyone’s privacy—no “outing” of participants, ever! And remember, the fun continues with no photography allowed during Triad Jacks events. So, let’s put those phones on silent and fully embrace the experience!